Before the Principle of Health, Everyone is Equal

  • To achieve a happy life, the most important thing is your health — oh so clichéd, I know — but it is the natural way to maintain your youth and vitality. You can chase after money, fame, power, or whatever else you want — but without health, you have nothing.

  • Before health, everyone is equal. The rich cannot buy health, the powerful cannot command health, the famous cannot demand health, the religious cannot pray to obtain health. In reality, those who break the principle of health are prone to suffer from illnesses, and it has long been inevitable.

Prevention is always better than cure.

  • Therefore, it is necessary to not only acquire health knowledge, but to also apply the knowledge, persistently. Including wellness knowledge, hygiene knowledge, medical knowledge, dietetic knowledge, health preservation knowledge, and so on. Those who lack the proper knowledge, simply won’t know how to prevent diseases properly. As a consequence, many sufferers die of ignorance, rather than diseases.
Physiological Health
  • Aging is defined as, the ticking of your physiological clock, at the rate your physical functionalities declines. As the physiological clock ticks, the mechanism of your immunity and regeneration is gradually restrained, which leads to sicknesses, aging, and frailty. Therefore, it is necessary to adopt healthcare habits that can slow down the rate of the clock.

Always maintain 30% of hunger and coldness.

  • A simple principle of health preservation in Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM). Meaning, to stay well and sound, don’t eat to feel glutted, just until you no longer feel hungry; don’t dress to feel warm, just until you no longer feel cold. This allows your physical functionalities to constantly sustain its fighting spirit, which aids prolonging the mechanism of your immunity and regeneration. “If you don’t use it, you lose it.”

  • Healthy people look sharp and charming, consistent exercise is one of the most effective ways to achieve it. Your exercise should be well-varied, including aerobic, weightlifting, balance, flexibility, and internal organs. Exercise can pump oxygen into your bloodstream, enhance your cardiopulmonary function, sharpen your nerves, proliferate your cells, and slow down brain deterioration. Go pick up an exercise routine, stick with it constantly and persistently. It’s worth it.

  • Supplements of vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants may be taken moderately. Seniors especially, for offsetting their deficiencies in natural nutrients absorption, as well as youth rejuvenation and life prolonging.

  • Sufficient sleep, nap, and rest can help repairing your body, mending your mind, cleansing the brain, and prevent aging.
Emotional Health
  • It is is necessary to understand and admit that, in most people’s lives, the moments of glory and achievement only take up the minority of your lifetime — the majority of your lifetime is ordinary, boring, repetitious, and tedious. Hour after hour we spend time commuting, working, labouring, running errands, doing chores, and so on. Don’t let your vision be fazed and narrowed by all of those posts and stories on social media, where everybody only shares the glorious moments in their lives — all just a tiny part out of the whole big picture.

  • Experiencing failure is inevitable — we often have to face failure, setbacks, bad luck, and frustrations. When dealing with them, maintain psychological balance, stay as calm and rational as possible, and avoid extreme and excessive reactions. No matter what happens, life must go on. At the end, you will look back at these so-called “problems” and would just smile consciously, like when you said goodbye to your puppy lover.

  • Not only spend your time maintaining exercise routines, but also cultivating a stable state of mind. A simple method is try to contact and communicate with your loved ones more often. Mental purity lies in the maintenance of a stable nervous system. Live a meaningful life with adequate sleep and moderate desires. Stay relaxed, work on being as independent as possible, and avoid unnecessary worries and conflicts.

  • Keep working on self-sufficiency. The less you have to ask and rely on others, the more likely you can reach emotional wellness. Be likeable and approachable, always be ready to give help to others (within your budget). You have to be able to take care of yourself first, before you can take care of others. The reason why you find happiness in helping others is simple — as knowing that you have a surplus in yourself, which has the ability to better someone else’s life, is a blessing.

  • Mentally healthy people are broad-minded, easy-going, and kind-hearted. They wish others well, and try to guide others to be better. Those who are mentally unstable cannot govern their emotions, and are prone to act with extreme reactions. In fact, emotional stability, to some extent, can be controlled by yourself.

  • Fear of cancer is common in industrialized countries, and the fear ended up being one of the main causes of actual diagnosis of cancer.

  • Fear of poverty is typical in utilitarian societies, and the fear was overtaken by greed which lead to actual bankruptcy.

  • Therefore, it is necessary to learn how to strengthen the capacity of your living endurance, tolerance, and resilience; in order to overcome your encounter with emotional stress.

  • Extreme emotional stress can suddenly terminate someone’s life. Wrath, fear, hatred, sadness, mourning, exhilaration, etc — could cause disordered heartbeat, excessive endocrine, severe damage to the cardiovascular circulation, brain damage, and heart failure.

  • Try getting used to soothe your nerves and anger, with more self-review, and less ego. Social matters and human relations, can often make you feel unfortunate — coerces, abuses, unfair treatments, unmet expectations, inability to fight back, disappointments — all of which enrages you, because most people are too eager to put their abilities on display, over-estimate themselves, have too much self-esteem, and rarely self-evaluate objectively. Calm down, be rational, and introspect. Once in a while, it is necessary to put yourself back in your own place.

If you have the ability to love, love yourself first.

  • Unload depression, self-abandonment, and autistic symptoms. Take care of yourself first, before you’re qualified to take care anybody else. Don’t judge your own success based on the world’s standardized and materialistic qualities, focus on upgrading the qualities that would really fulfill your life. Treat yourself like how you would treat a loved one.

  • Subjective and personal feelings often is not the truth. You can always find something to keep yourself up, get over the disappointments, and avoid all kinds of chronic physical disease caused by depression.

  • Get used to letting your mind relax and relieve tension. Unwinding your body and mind helps shutting off all kinds of negative stimuli that cause stress and anxiety, so that your body and mind could have a turn to rest and recover. Meditation, soothing music and dancing, Tai Chi, Yoga, are some physical and social activities that can help you relax.
Spiritual Health
  • What harms your life the most, is not physical diseases, but spiritual distress, commonly known as “mental illness”.

  • It is necessary to equip the positive concepts of life. Treating others with sincerity, integrity, and honesty will help keeping the mind spiritually sound. Otherwise, you’re prone to mental illness.

  • Your inner nature and character is the most important source of spirituality. You must understand and acknowledge that, life comes with suffering and disappointment, as a package. Be brave, face your responsibilities, always be prepared to accept challenges, don’t run away. Your ability to endure distress and hardship, is measured by the strictness of your self-discipline and self-control spirit.

  • Most people nowadays regard self-interest and egotism as their goal of life — creating enemies, confrontations, trouble, and resentments — all of which leads to an inferior ability to endure distress and hardship, as there is not a single real friend to fight alongside during adversity — resulting various mental illnesses.

  • Therefore, strong distress and hardship endurance should be built on public-interest and altruism. Take good care of yourself, and make others feel the need of your ability to look after them. The saints who are commonly known in the past and present, are simply people who constantly do good deeds and guide others to be good. When your ability is recognized and proven to be helpful and beneficial to others, your heart is fulfilled, and will stay away from mentally illnesses.

When life gives you a lemon, make lemonade.

  • The power of optimism lies in the understanding of the fact that — life is short, and you’re gonna have to go through it, no matter the good times or bad times. Learn how to extract the sweetness out of a sour and bitter situation, and how to enjoy the process of coping with setbacks. So as to learn the ability to prepare for hardships, and accumulate all kinds of resilient capacity.

  • The cultivation of physical and mental endurance (resilience and stability) takes time to learn, practice, and apply. Take it with patience, as it has a major impact on your success and longevity in life. Strong endurance — you’re often calm and rational — able to avoid health-damaging and extreme emotional reactions (despair and insanity) — you’re able to cope with the test of crisis and setbacks.

  • A beautiful garden requires pruning of perished branches and withered leaves. Similarly, a sound spiritual mind also requires the disposal of defective and purposeless people, matters, things, and happenings.

  • Get over the past, focus on the present, and look forward to the future. Nobody’s life is perfect. Everyone has a history of setbacks, mistakes, failures, shame, embarrassment, and disgrace. Be tolerant with your own mistakes, it lets you to get along with yourself composedly and collectedly. No more self-blame, regrets, and striving for perfection. Set your spirit free and hit the restart button. Get over the loss in the past, learn the lessons, and focus on winning the next round. There are still countless games ahead of you.

  • The best therapist is yourself.
  • The best psychotropic drug is your sense of humour and laughters.
  • The best mood is the contentment with knowing what you are.
  • The best stress-relieving exercise is jogging and walking.
  • The best emotional support is a warming and compassionate hug.

  • Be an autonomous self, not someone that others want you to be.
  • Happy is he who is giving, content, and indifference of what others may think.
  • Perceive small blessings, don’t presumptuously demand big fortune.
  • The less trouble, the more blessings.
  • Eliminating trouble is more effective than attracting fortune.
Lifestyle
  • Simplify your life. A quality lifestyle is the unavoidable journey of going from complexity to simplicity. It should be about the simple truth and science, not superstition and sorcery. It should be philosophical and realistic — plain and simple thoughts, words, and deeds, possess a charming beauty. A simple and sincere heart, will bloom into a bright and upstanding appearance and temperament.

  • Longevity counts. The more successful your career is, and the more abundant your wealth is — the less you should be struggling and grinding hard to earn a living. Let your life be pleasant and less stressful, the medical care will be easier to manage. The more effortless it is to live longer, the easier it is to be satisfied with life.

  • A content and joyful life cannot lack true love and intimacy. True love is hard to be sought, while intimacy is relatively easier to obtain. Continue to love and be loved, for as long as possible — it is beneficial for your physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

  • A less complicated way to prolong life and stay sound, is to focus on enjoying the small blessings in life. Worry less about getting validations from others. Don’t judge your own success based on the worldly definition of success, and when one should achieve success. Your success should be based on your very own values, goals, and timeline. We all have our own distinctive timeline, and will all shine in different spots of our own timeline — some shine in their 20’s, some in their 40’s, and even some in their 70’s. So just let go, be patient, and keep doing your own things. Time will work for you.

  • In fact, it is unnecessary for one to own many things — as long as you live healthily, and love genuinely — it could be regarded as a form of wealth.